Your first vibrator

Start with what you want

Do you want to stimulate the outside, the inside or both? Most beginners start with the outside. It is the gentlest way in, and you quickly learn what you like.

The four types in plain language

Air pulse: no real vibration, just small pressure waves around the clitoris without direct contact. Many find it intense, so start low.

Wand: a large massage wand with a round head. Strong and broad, handy if you like deep vibrations.

Mini or bullet: small, cheap and discreet. A perfectly fine first try.

Rabbit or G-spot: a combination for outside and inside. Usually more interesting once you know what you are after.

What to look at

Check the number of intensity levels, whether it charges over USB and whether it is waterproof. Waterproof makes cleaning much easier. Read the reviews too and look at who the seller is. The same Satisfyer can be sold by the brand itself in Belgium and by a third party in the Netherlands.

Add some lubricant

A little water-based lubricant makes almost any toy nicer. It suits every material. Read our lubricant guide before you pick one.

Go on, enjoy

Take your time. Start on the lowest setting and build up. Rinse the toy before and after with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Use it for as long as it feels good. You can always stop.